If you look at any Gestalt images that show 2 possible image interpretations, what shows up for you is your point of view. Both images are there all the time but the difference is how you perceive them. Discipline your mind for 31 days to different ways of perceiving. We’re all connected. Deep seeded fears show up in romantic relationships. Women’s most common fear is to be not attractive enough. Men’s most common fear is not to be successful enough. If women do the work for him, they become their mothers.

If threatened, women can become mean.

Men tend to have an on/off channel only, such as pleasing/not pleasing, or winning/losing. A man doesn’t always believe in himself.
Women want romance, cuddling, listening to their babble on and on
Men want sex, a confident woman turns them on, such as her movements. It’s energy, at the cellular level.
When a woman is upset about a little thing, it is best to distract her, such as taking her somewhere new for a meal.
Your mind follows your body. Look in the mirror, head to toes and say: “I love you”.
Most people need to wake up. We’re living in a trance. We need to get a new dream. Most of us are not relating to other people.

Ist Law of Communication

· PRESENCE, here in the MOMENT. Notice if you’re here. Attention means intention to be here.

2nd Law of Communication

· SPACE, create the space 1st, to ensure connection or the experience that you’re with someone.
· Everything takes up space, whether you see it or not, such as language, ideas, experiences.
o Cats can see, move at night and see thing we can’t see
o Anger takes a lot of space. Joy dissipates space.
o Most of us are filled up all the time because we think it’s our natural state. We have to create SPACE. You can see if people are full.
o You can’t put 2 things in the same space at the same time, as they cancel themselves out.

Awareness is the discipline to stay conscious. What are you thinking? Express and journal patterns and trends in your behavior. Be aware of your feelings, thoughts, of what triggers them, and what brings up anger. We are our own teachers. Energy flows through all of us, rocks, trees, and at the center of the DNA of all life forms.

If you hold a thought in the energy field, then that thought will manifest itself. The Universe feels it as it is the source of all creative manifestation.

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Thank you.

Elena Pezzini, M.S., C.P.C., A.B.D.
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