· Personal growth takes time
· Don’t sweat the small stuff – forget it!

1. Shift of Recognition
o Something I need to do, let go of, change the patterns that do not serve me anymore
2. Shift of Remembrance is my true assignment or my promise to keep
3. Shift of Return Remembrance is wholeness, a center, loving innocence, emotional courage, the right relationship with everything

· Be truly ready to make a shift. Say; “I am ready to make a shift NOW!”. Make it so!
· A shift means:
o No return back
o Vibrational shift
o Transformation (versus change)
o Permanent, such as building a new house versus moving the furniture

Transmission is the theory that shifts us.

How can I make a difference? What difference am I making? What is my consciousness doing, or feeling? HOW am I showing up?
· It’s not about legislating a difference
· Do not diminish yourself because, by being alive, you are making a difference
· How did you get here? You do not have to be perfect to share your wisdom. Heal yourself. Save the World. Become a VIBRATIONAL BLESSING for others. You are here for something important. Say: ” THE WORLD IS WAITING FOR MY LOVE”.
· Your love is shifting things all the time. You need to vibrate love, which creates VORTEX of vibrating love.

Child vs. Adult
“I want it” recognition, admiration, etc. Shift to: The world is waiting for MY love; The Universe is waiting for my help.

· Be part of the shift and do the WORK inside

· What can I “get” vs. What can I “give”

· People are not watching you; they are FEELING you.

· Words always have vibrations behind them. What can I get from you vs. What can I give to you?

· Relationships are based on contraction or expansion. When expanded, You expand. When contracted, then you contract, as energy is blocked”. I don’t have enough, lack of gratitude, you did this wrong; · Expansion creates space and things come in

· You only have ONE Relationship and that is with yourself!

· All others are mirrors that you are the product of, the lens through which the message must pass.

· Words are just intellectual. There is a vibrational package piggybacked =YOU

· The transformation for the inside/out gets distorted by your “STUFF”, such as, who shows up with you and what energies are not serving you? You cannot bypass YOU. You have to do the WORK to get to Freedom.

· The time for that great shift has come. Am I ready to do the work,- open your heart, heal the contraction, and honor your love and present?

· What is love? The purpose of a relationship is NOT to make you happy. It is to make you GROW. Your partner becomes your teacher and helps you to grow.

· It does not take much courage to have a relationship but it does take courage to love deeply, to walk the path of deep consciousness together, to know all of you and be the confident adult vs. the terrified child.

· Relationship is the greatest teacher.

· When you meet someone and fall in love, it feels like shit; that’s love. Marriage is not a noun; it is a verb. It is the way you treat your partner every single day; it is an energetic reality every day, recreated each moment as 2 vibrational beings.

· Emotional tension builds up through childhood and adulthood. Emotional tension is earthly energy.

Emotional Programming
50% by 5 yrs
80% by 8 yrs
95% by 15 yrs
5% you use to shift

· Begin to pierce through the walls and hitting your partner’s walls

· It is so important to do the work

· Everything that ever happened to you registers on your emotion scale 1-10; murder =10; takes parking space =1;
o You may react with a 6 even though the incident is a 1, due to emotional baggage. We tend to exaggerate and have emotional flashback.

THE WORK
· Going back and clearing out that stuff
· Bring in love – most of us are love-starved – not having our hearts fed; we try to fill up with other things – alcohol, shopping, work, etc.
· How do we know? Because we are irritable, tired, and obsessed.
· We all need to be fulfilled
· Make a deposit to your love bank such as your children, friend, and yourself.

3 Secret Needs:
1. To feel connected
2. To feel safe
3. To feel valued

The real shift has to happen inside. The 3A’s:
1. Attention
2. Affection
3. Appreciation

Ask: how can I love you more? That is the secret for shifting your relationships.

Share real moments, show your spirit. What will your legacy be? Be a transmitter for others. Invest in things that matter to you. Do not get caught up in contraction.

Do 7 acts of love this week, such as calling, writing, etc. Make your relationships thrive. May the work you do be blessed!

Thank you.

Elena Pezzini, M.S., C.P.C., A.B.D.
You Have Got The Power, Inc.
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