Why be financially successful? To be happier.

What makes people happy? It is the quality of our relationships.

Small town people who are close to family are usually happier, because of the quality of the connections and communications.

Money, love and happiness are taught from:
o Past programming
o Past conditioning
o Relationship unconscious blueprint

It is important to focus on ALL Relationships. All your money comes from other people. Nothing has meaning except the meaning I GIVE it. We can see people as good or bad. “Kindness” is a habit.

Who are you? What makes you different from everyone else? It is a quality or an emotion. For Mother Theresa is poverty, for Bambi is gentleness and innocence. What do you want to experience in a relationship? What is a healthy relationship?

I need to unlearn everything that I’ve ever been taught. Everything is what you believe, feel about yourself. Everything in a relationship begins with you.

Children are born with only 2 fears: falling and loud noises. They are taught to doubt themselves by adult care givers.
· 0-8 years of age involve the development of the conscious mind. We are born without subconscious.
· 5-8yrs years of age involve absorbing everything. We develop our belief system.

You can change the way you feel about yourself or the relationship with yourself.
FORGIVE, LOVE & ACCEPT YOURSELF.
FORGIVE, LOVE & ACCEPT EVERYONE ELSE. Forgive the person you have never forgiven, such as what they did to us or not did to us. For instance, parents did not hug us.

· Freedom of Expression
- Imagine your mother and father together

· Distant

· Arguing

· Separate

· Weak

· Happy
- The affection toward each other

· Not displayed

· Not wanted
o Subconscious beliefs – WHAT YOU SAW
- SHOW KINDNESS TO YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY

See yourself as a small child
- Tell children they are safe and “I love you”.
- You need to love yourself first and you need to think you are good enough so you can love someone else.

· Every relationship begins with you

· Worse Memories of Female Caregivers:
- Refused to hug
- Anger
- Push medications for upsets i.e. dog died; piano recital

· Best Memories of Female Caregivers
- Cookie jar surprises
- Stay home from school to watch movies

· Worse Memories of Male Caregivers
- Slapping
- Yelling
- Stay off the grass
- Chased me with dead bird

· Best Memories of Male Caregivers

· There is no such thing as a FUNCTIONAL family. Everyone is “screwed up”, but to what extent? Parents were not perfect and we are not perfect.
· Accept we all are human beings
· Forgive yourself and your parents
· We play out what we saw or the relationships to Mom & Dad
· At a subconscious level, we tend to believe that is what we DESERVE & No MORE.
· Law of Deservedness – you get ONLY what your subconscious believes about you and, if you get more, you sabotage it
· Look inside of you and see the beauty and not the lies you were taught as children
· Work on your subconscious beliefs

Take the online “Relationship Profile Test”.

SEEK BALANCE! Unlearn all the lies. You are worthy. Believe in yourself. You deserve the best of everything; that is the Truth.

Thank you.

Elena Pezzini, M.S., C.P.C., A.B.D.
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